We first met in 2011, but we didn't talk very much. Also beware of constant remarks by this Muslim man that you need to listen to your heart against all common sense, parental teachings, and the teachings of Christ-this is a common psychological mind game people play to get what they want. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember. I hope I made sense, and apologize if I didn't. Maybe he thinks that he was abandoning his culture and family that is still back in his homeland, and that freaked him out. Ask yourselves why a Muslim woman is not allowed to marry a Christian man, but a Muslim man is able to Marry a Christian woman. But I really want to know if he has feelings for me at all, or if this is the way he treats all of his friends who are girls and that he would be more extreme with a girlfriend.Next
You don't want to sound like another burden on his already full plate. You live your life you die, and people remember you for what, 6 months? He reached out a couple of times a year to see how I was doing. . He has met my family, and extended family, and my closest friend, and all of them say that it looks like he is extremely interested in me and that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. She could not touch his Koran. You have to accept Islam by your heart.Next
May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions! And this is not because they're Muslims but because they're not a westernized family. I also pray for it to be God's will and I try not to be selfish. You attend events at masjids or halaqas at school. My dear, Marraiage is not coming for you. You learn what you can when you can. It will be a constant reminder of his white privilege and the lack of mine.Next
Posts may be removed at discretion if we feel the content lacks in civility. I am actually going through th esame thing. Maybe you can discuss how you want to raise your kids if you have any and see if you guys are on the same page, I think that's most important - the children. A Spanish name is out of the question for them. When you give your time to help others like volunteering for humanitarian or religious organizations around school or in your community, it shows that you have empathy and are good hearted.
It is the first time I am writing something over the Internet for asking advice. Four hundred bucks may not seem like much, but to Lis it is a great start bescuae, as she says, the income has been consistent month by month over the year. Even the day of the dead became a mine field. Guys are physical and visual beings and looking good is a huge part in creating a place in his heart. I had overwhelming student loans, made much less money then him, and in those years right after September 11 th, I stopped being able to fly and was harassed on those Washington, D. And my other close friend takes a more middle path and will have some from column A, and some from B.Next
Depending on how devout the man is, there are also many things to consider practically and there might be some sacrifices that you are not prepared to make. If you really really love him, and you have had bad experiences with men and you don't think you will be able to connect with anyone then focus on fixing the clash of his culture and yours. If he read on the Internet or someone told him that having some beard stubble is attractive to women, then he will have stubble all over his face. In Islam Men can marry people of the book jews or christians but the main problem is his culture you will have to deal with. However, girls that carry themselves as confident but not obnoxious get noticed. Someone who can get you closer to paradise.
Again, it is your choice and you will be judged afterlife if you believe there is one. Its when you make a conscious effort to have a relationship with Allah. But we have to separate though because of that also. As you can imagine my kids told him and he ended up shouting at me horrible things. Consider yours and make a selfish decision thinking of your future. Have not talked to my parents in 2 years. The last thing I wanted to do was come home to a space where I had to continue to educate.
Islam teaches us to respect women. Islam recognizes that throughout history and societies there is a significant power asymmetry in favor of men and so seeks to limit the opportunity for abuse of power, especially if it can harm someone's spiritual well being and connection to God. Stuff like the Crusades which wasn't about killing muslims but to repel them from christian countries after they had invaded brings a real issue at hand. I know how hard it is to have family overseas and no one here. He may become more devout as life circumstances change, such as having children.Next
Because he has told me of his culture he came from Jordan that they can have 4 wives but treat them all equal. If religion is not even part of your daily life, it'll come up some day. The word translated in surah al Mumtahinah as 'disbelievers' is 'al kuffari' in Arabic and this is the male. Yeah, something might be sinful but that doesn't stop you from choosing to do it. I don't want him to go against his family but in the same time I love him. All the religions have their own norms and values.Next
What excuse we can give to Allah for our mistakes ,which we know that we are taking the path of hell fire. Things were not always this way. I consider myself Christian, but I am not the same type of Christian as my parents. Is he considering you in any way without you having to ask or fight for it? However he always wants to come over to my house but doesn't want to bring me around his house that he shares with his brother and his other Arabic friends. Do some more research on halal and haram in Islam as this may be one of the major conflicts. It's easy to know he is staring at you because of his big, tantalizing eyes.Next