They have good family values and cater to the man. Jake met way more girls than I did, got more dates and slept with way more girls than I did during his stay. This was a girl who I had been seeing and even traveled to different countries with. But when people did cast judgement, there was no mistaking it, no lack of subtlety. The internet said it and now this guy is saying it. Japan was just one place, right? And I have also a few Chinese male friends who regularly ask me to find them a Western girlfriend stating many of the reasons you mentioned.Next
This post may contain affiliate links, which at no cost to you, Diary of a Toronto Girl earns a commission from if you click through and make a purchase. It really shouldn't matter either way but we've both had enough experience to know that it's something people still think about. Because he cares for me, he is serious about our relationship, he knows what he wants for our future and works beside me to get us there. We both met cute girls, had fun and got some fun videos to watch later. Mickey Mouse Mode is basically being a character who gets a lot of attention but none of it is romantic. Rural Jiangsu province, not so much gentleman, though I met a few excellent exceptions.
Ask my husband how fun is it once a month — just two days ago I made his life a living hell because of a fork and soup. I guess I eat that same brand of cheese as well. I had two serious relationships or at least I was the one treating it seriously — my white ex and my Hong Kong husband. One example is a girl who matched every single one of my friends on Tinder and she was all talking to each of us with equal enthusiasm. Jake was not the only one in my crew to do this with me.Next
I decided to go with him to these clubs and had a hard time meeting girls where he had no trouble. Asians, on the other hand, have almost no positive presence in Western media. I had just lost weight, ended a 6-year relationship with my white girlfriend, quit my job, and recently taken a strong interest in improving my life and luck with girls — to give some context. She feared they would flip a table if they knew I was a white guy so she lied. There is such a range of cultural influences from Pakistan to Indonesia, Sri Lanka to Korea, and everywhere in between. For me, it was the same reason as for you — personality — and I think for my husband too.Next
I grew up watching american tv shows only english subtitles and stuff like that,all I can think about romantic relationship is white gal or latina. I never had an Asian guy tell me I'm betraying my own kind or anything like that to my face, but when I posted online dating ads stating my preferences - white, tall, educated, funny, etc. How would your partner answer this question? What I took offense at going through school with the same people from elementary, to junior, to senior high school was the assumption that we should date just because we were both Asian incidentally, I believe that guy went on to become a dentist and has an attractive white wife. He goes to the club and the music is great and the girls are really nice. Imagine their embarrassment when I pin-pointed them out to my husband and told them what they had said about him when they first met him! In the grand scheme of interracial marriage judgements, this was amateur hour.Next
A wife gives face to her husband in public, but in honoring his end in private, he must put family first not himself , cater to her in-laws and, as is traditional in countries like China and Japan, hand over control of the bank accounts to her. Also, being an Asian guy, he has access to more girls because most girls in Asia are comfortable with Asian guys. The whites, the Jews, the Chinese — nobody will ever accept them. We deal with out own set of issues socially. Great article, some of these reasons made me laugh especially the white sausage one! I wanted to know why, so I set out to make a documentary. My husband is white and 6' so we joke around sometimes that when we go out as couples, we wonder if people assume that he and I are together and our spouses are together.Next
For me ethnicity or culture or the country, non of this really matters. Haha, love your writing as always. Page 1 of 2 In my life, I've often encountered a certain type of Western guy who was attracted to Asian women. One funny fact was the clubs I liked had way more annoying hookers roaming around where the clubs he liked had none. Why Me Being White Makes My Opinion Better Than Yours Before I make my case, I want to be very clear that I am a white guy who likes Asian girls. Now that everyone is pissed, let me explain why I think this.
I actually have the entire conversation on video. I just loved reading your comments haha The sad thing though, I have heard a few of those answers myself. And, just because the woman you fancy is Chinese, it doesn't mean she'll want to play ping-pong on a date. We are very different but have many things in commn at the same time. I prefer an independent and physically strong women, not a princess. The results were always the same, some girls hated me, some girls loved me. As Japan is a very polite and considerate culture, my husband and I mostly went about our daily life with relatively few negative reactions — save for the occasional stares from older people or children on the subway.Next