Looking forward to seeing you on Saturday! The increase of texting has played a major role in collapsed communication between the opposite sexes. Seeing eachother once a week is fine, but I think talking a couple of times a week is good. You need to work on your woman selector or become interesting if you believe that you have to purposely stir emotions to keep her interest. Our first date was a Saturday, our 3rd was the later Sunday, 8 days later. We ll usually have an amazing time, maybe have sex.Next
I feel like this might be a problem with me. . I expect contact the day after. Going fast is hanging out 5x a week from the get-go. My bf and I took things slowly but we were still seeing one another 2 or 3x a week from the get-go. It doesn't and shouldn't have to be a long thorough conversation everyday but just enough to show that you are interested in them. If you are unclear whether she wants daily communication, it is best to ask her.Next
Do they actually expect for a guy to initiate texting every day, or once in a few days. If it's not on the 2nd day, I'd assume you just got what you wanted. Once a week wouldn't be enough for me to know that you're keen. I will usually build some really good attraction. If the man is interested in a woman, and wants to pursue a relationship with her he should be clear and consistent with his communication. But direct communication with the other person.
Whether it is a text, email, or phone call, if he feels like or she has indicated she wants daily communication, he should do so. It was equal contact, but yes I did wait after our first sexing for him to contact me, and it was the next day as it should be! Now I am curious as to how this would be perceived by a girl and what they expect. That is pretty much my template. I usually still keep my distance. But I don't date more than one person at once never have so maybe my experience isn't relevant. Whenever I was getting serious with anyone we communicated at the very least once a day.Next
I think it has to do more with how people are used to. A week is long enough for her to feel sad you aren't calling her and then decide she's over it. Try sticking to the phone more so and once a week will automatically put you on the 'he isn't that interested' list to just about any woman. Then I ll send a txt a week later, to hang out. If she texts or calls you every day, chances are she would like the same from you. I honestly don't do it to stir their emotions although I agree with most of what CptSaveAho said.Next
I'd think you'd just used me for sex and by the time you texted again I'd have written you off. You don't seek validation from them You have a life outside of dating if you don't fake it. Suppose you are casually hooking up with someone? Everyone's entitled to their opinions. Notice how all the women and nice guys say it's not right. Sometimes, though I feel like they're looking for that validation maybe it's just in my head. Even if it's just a message to say 'Hey, hope you're having a great week. I really don't wanna be too clingy so then invite a girl over for a beer say.Next
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